Tuesday, May 21, 2013



June 2015

My daughter's mother died last month. A strange sentence even to my ears. She was my daughter's birth mother but she and I agreed later that I was her spiritual mother. I got to talk to her before she passed at age 54 from ovarian cancer. We talked a bit about the conversation we had had 35 years ago. My husband and I were foster parents years ago. We had a tiny baby placed with us for a few months and then returned to her parents. It was hard to see that little one go back to a domestic violence situation but it was the law. Months passed and one day I got a call from her birth mother saying that she wanted me to adopt this baby. She said that God had spoken to her and that now she understood that she had given birth to this baby but that I was her “real” mother. I had met this 19 year old for a total of no more than an hour. I went into shock. This is a long and involved story and I wish there was time to share with you all the nuances of what God wrought in each of our lives during the next few months. Some of them are still hard for me to comprehend after all of these years. A miracle happened and I had the privilege
of being part of it. It brought me to my knees and strengthened my faith.

I am grateful.

Tuesday, January 29, 2013

Remembering Doug Grubbs (1929-2011)
By Terri Burton

Most of all I remember his voice.  He sat in the back of our church and I sat across the aisle from him.  Every Sunday the whole congregation prayed  the Lord’s Prayer aloud.  Each Sunday I heard this male voice, just a bit louder than all the other men and just about one-half beat off  from the unison.  The voice was connected to the prayer in a way that was different from the rest of us.  My first thought was that he personally knew whom he was speaking to and was not on rote.  Finally, my curiosity got the best of me one Sunday and during prayer I opened my eyes to see who this unique voice belonged to.  Later I found out that it was  Doug Grubbs.

Months passed, perhaps a year or more and then he came over to me before church started.  He looked me straight in the eye for a moment before speaking.  With his finger pointed at my face he asked, “Are you the woman that tells stories?”  Immediately I was a child again with my mother asking if it was the truth or did I make up a “story”?.  I said nothing.  I was stunned trying to figure out what he could be talking about.  He asked again, “Well, are you or not?  You know the woman that tells stories in the paper?”  Ahh, the articles for the church newsletter.  I answered, “I am”.  And still pointing at me, he said “You’re good, really good.  I read them every time.  Do you know what makes them good?  They are from your heart.  Do you know how I know they’re from your heart?  They touch my heart!”  as he started beating his fist on his chest. 

“Don’t you ever stop, you hear?  The world needs your stories, I need your stories.”   Very quickly he turned and walked away.  I told him “Thank you.  Thank you.” as he left me.  He may have been embarrassed by my tears but I believe  he knew he had just given me a gift.

I miss him, I miss his voice, his heart.

Tuesday, January 22, 2013


By Terri Burton


It was an ordinary day about to become extraordinary.  I was sitting at a table in an antique mall pricing items to put in my booth.  A friend walked past and asked if I minded her aunt joining me to rest her legs.  She sat down and told me she was 86 years old and then she jumped into the “deep”.  No conversations about weather or illnesses for this lady, she wanted to share from her heart.  I leaned forward to listen.


“I was 60 years old when my husband died after a two year struggle with cancer.  The next year my only daughter was killed by a drunk driver in a car wreck.  He never served a minutes time for that.  Something surely was not right about that.  I hardly spoke for about a year, hardly ate.  The pain in my heart was horrible.  I didn’t care if I lived or died.  One evening I was rocking in my chair and God spoke to me.  He said I needed a baby to rock.  I thought I was going crazy.  A baby at my age, that was crazy.  I didn’t sleep all night and the next morning I got on the phone and started calling people.  A friend of mine laughed and said she knew just the baby for me.  A neighbor of hers had a baby boy and she was looking for someone to watch him while she worked.  Within two weeks, I was rocking that boy and I raised him.  Two years later his sister was born and I raised her too.  They are in their twenties now and they both call me Granny.  I had a reason to live again and the pain lessened.  God helped me when I didn’t know what to do.”


A lesson in love and healing was freely given to me that day and to you as we make our own way Home.